The BITCH is back!
Oooohhhh…. how I miss bitching around. And now is the time to do it in Canada! Haha…
Actually, I’ve already tamed myself for the past couple of months, but I guess, people really has their own way of pushing someone elses button and just a few days ago, somebody did just that to the wrong person!
To be very frank and honest, what happened did not directly concern me. The reason why I am reacting like this is because it was done to a friend and the son of’a bitch happened to be one of the other Filipino nurses with us.
To start the story, let me give you a brief detail of our set-up here in Canada as the very first Filipinos hired by our employer.
There are 4 of us here. Myself, Female 2, Male 1 and Male 2.
Our housing arrangement is me with female 2 in a 2-bedroom apartment at $625/month exclusive of utilities and both males in another apartment at $700/month with garage excl. utilities. All 4 of us share the telephone and internet services so it will be cheaper for all of us. Male 2 was the one who applied for the services and we pay him upfront when the bill comes. Our apartment location is just a 5-minute walk to and from the hospital.
Both Male 1 and 2 are married. Male 1 already processed his wife’s spousal permit prior to coming here last May and so his wife got her visa last October 7 and arrived here last November 5. Male 2 is still waiting for his baby’s passport to start the process of his wife and child’s visa application.
The bruhaha started when Male 2 phoned me and says that he needs to tell me something. He came over to our apartment and said that he’s the new Big Brother evictee! I said, “WHAT???” I thought he was just joking. But no, it was all real.
Male 1 just blatantly told him that day that him and his wife will be moving out by Dec. 1 and that they found this 1-bedroom apartment with no garage at $495/month excl. utilities. Male 2 was shocked with the revelation of Male 1. He was not expecting it at all. Male 2 told me that they should have informed him sooner so that he could have also prepared himself in looking for his own place and maybe find a much cheaper house. Male 2 is obviously upset but he just let it go.
And so, we helped him prepare to move to his new place. The $495 apartment that was supposed to be the apartment of Male 1 and his wife.
That started the “cold war” between the 3 of us and Male 1 and his wife.
Then one day, the wife went to see Female 2 while I was at work. She was asking Female 2 what happened and why we are upset. She mentioned me particularly because I am the more vocal with my feelings of dissappointment. Wife said that I don’t even have the RIGHT to be angry because I was not the one affected. Female 2, being nice and all, told her that I am upset not only because Male 2 is my smoking buddy but also because he is our friend. Female 2 also reminded the wife that she was also upset with the sudden decision and that we all felt disrespected. Wife was very apologetic and was telling Female 2 that they didn’t know that they have upset us blah blah blah…
Wife asked Female 2 what they could do to patch things up and Female 2 told her that Male 1 should apologize to Male 2.
Well, until now, no apology was ever uttered by Male 1.
I just find him so egotistic, self-righteous, hypocritical and over confident asshole! He just thinks highly of himself. Especially now that he has everything. His wife, new car, apartment of their own, canadian friends and most especially, being an RN.
Yes, I may not have the right to be mad and angry at them because I was not directly affected. But having lived away from my family and the Philippines for such a long time, I know how it feels for Male 2 to start anew without anything. He was disrespected above all things. And frankly, I hate that.
Male 1 even had the nerve to post this in facebook: ”educated people are not cultured”. I guess he was thinking of himself when he wrote that!!! Ha ha…
The drama hasn’t ended yet.
The saga will continue until such time that Male 1 and his wife will fall face down!
Will wait.